I'm looking ahead to when I'm no longer driving, and though friends and Handsome Son would help, they also have a life, and in the absence of public transportation around here to get me where I need to be, I'm investigating other options, too.
I found a volunteer group who drive seniors and visually impaired people to local destinations, and amazingly, include my town. Usually these things go strictly by county.
I live very close to one county, in fact most of my activities and doctors are there, but I'm in the extreme south of another, big, county where everything happens way north of me, and where they won't cross county lines. So this service is promising. Usually the county I do most activities in won't cross county lines to service my town.
It's also overloaded and I spent time trying to get on the waiting list. Several emails explaining the basics, cost, etc, but they want a call. I explained finally the phone is difficult, that's why I'm emailing. They responded helpfully. I'm now on the waiting list. So I'm a step further on.
It's cheaper than uber, but not cheap. But when I use the service, I won't be running a car, with those expenses, so the math may math. I may be on the waiting list for a while. The plan is to try it out while I'm still driving, to see how it works.
Meanwhile I'm still driving locally. And this afternoon is taken up with hearing aids, fitting, learning how to insert, whatever that entails.
Home again, with my little shopping bag, complete with charger, case, cleaning materials and Tootsie rolls for being a good patient. One for each ear.
You can't see the hearing aids because I'm wearing them, having navigated my weird shaped ear canals. The over the ear part is tiny, and pretty much vanishes into my hair.
On the way home from the appointment, I noticed various interesting things such as: the signal on my car is not silent after all. It clicks. So do the keys on my phone.
I go back twice more to get the volume raised each time till it's normal, meanwhile I wear them all day, I read aloud to get used to my voice which is sounding weird just now, and generally discover sounds I'd forgotten about.
This is fun. It's a strange feeling having things in my ears, but I expect to get used to it. At least, that's the plan.
My bank account needs a Tootsie roll after the onslaught, but, oh well. Gary stopped over later on other business, and he sounded so loud! He's thrilled that I'm going with the aids, very happy.
After all this excitement I was still in time for Textiles and Tea with photographer turned tapestry artist Jeane Vogel. Her small, often four selvage, tapestry works all have messages and she uses a lot of Jewish symbolism and iconography. But as she says, it's meant to work as art even if you aren't familiar with the meaning.
Photographic images on fabric, on the right with sashiko stitching.
After my late partner retired, he became a volunteer driver to take people to medical appointments, shopping etc. The cars were supplied. Those who received the service were supposed to pay $5 per trip but some refused and they weren't denied help. There were also a few lunch outings for about eight people each year to a hotel, which needed a hired mini bus and two volunteers.
ReplyDeletePersist with the hearing aids. You will get used to them and one night you'll wake to find they are still in your ears.
This service works like uber in that nobody handles money. They say tipping is not allowed, wonder why
DeleteYes, the general advice is exactly what you say, stick with them. I'll do it!
I admire how proactive you are about all the various issues involved in aging. Too many people just stick their heads in the sand about the whole process and procrastinate until things are at an emergency stage.
ReplyDeleteP.S. Thanks for sharing Jeane Vogel's work -- it is stunning!
I've seen people postpone decisions, and they end up either desperate or imposing on family and friends. I'd like to avoid that.
DeleteI love the artistic work. So much colour
ReplyDeleteI hope you find a good, reasonably priced alternative to driving.
I too live where the public transport isn’t great and I often wonder how I would go
If I couldn’t drive. Food for thought
Its worth thinking ahead, yes.
DeleteI don't drive, and although bus traffic in my area is not ideal, dependence on volunteering (though short) has also disappointed me.
ReplyDeleteYou'll be able to hear the birds singing now.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad your hearing aids work well for you! And I hope the transport option works well too!
ReplyDeleteTransportation here is a tough go if you don’t drive. That sounds like a great service available there, Boud.
ReplyDeleteIIRC my first hearing aid (singular) came in a small box. I bright the current ones home in a bag like yours. It was filled with boxes.
ReplyDeleteI was just musing yesterday about transportation in towns like ours. They're too big for walking, at least in my diminished reality, but not big enough for public transit. I hope to keep our old car for three more years until I am 80. I'll worry about it then.
Transportation seems to be a common issue. The main question is often medical visits. You can't get them delivered, unlike shopping. Telemedicine doesn't work for testing, shots, all that.
DeleteWe're in a situation like you- very close to a county line and almost everything we need or need to do is over that line. I have seen small buses that I think transport people from the country county to the city county and back again. We are so very dependent on our cars here.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the new sounds! You've made me wonder what all I'm missing!
I'm having to get used to inserting the aids. A bit uncomfortable, but I expect I'll adapt
Deletemy brother who lives in the PNW used to have a pilot's license and owned a small plane with two other partners and he participated in Angel Flights, taking people from remote areas to medical facilities. This country is so big and so spread out it makes us dependent on personal transportation. I like Jeane's small works but I'm curious how you get four selvedges.
ReplyDeleteI've done the four selvage technique. As do Guatemalan weavers on back strap looms. It involves a supplementary warp which is removed after the work is completed.
DeleteI live in a rural community, so absolutely no public transport. I hadn't given this any thought but now I realize I should. I think the people in this community have family they rely on. We don't. Mark still has not used the hearing aids he got many months ago.
ReplyDeleteIt pays to think ahead about getting around. You can get groceries delivered, but medical testing not so much.
DeleteIt will be interesting to read about your experiences with better hearing. In some cases you may want to remove those hearing aids! Good that you're thinking ahead about transportation. I love not having a car.
ReplyDeleteIf it takes living in a city to get around, I'm not up for it! Life is different with better hearing, even at only 80%.
DeleteWhat a smart idea to "audition" the ride share before it becomes essential. Our mass transit here is nothing to write home about either.
ReplyDeleteGood for you for thinking about future transportation! I like Jeanie's remark about auditioning.
ReplyDeleteOne other thing about hearing aids - get in the habit, before a shower, to tuck your hair behind your ears. That will let you know if you've remembered to take your hearing aids out. It has saved my (very expensive) bacon a few times...
Chris from Boise
PS Those tapestries are wonderful! Design and color both!
My hair is too short to tuck! But I'm planning visual aids to prevent disaster.
DeleteJust loving that tapestry weaving😊
ReplyDeleteIt's very small, some 9x8 that range. Jewels
DeleteI'm happy you have discovered a driving service that you can access (once you're on their list). We have one here and I have it in mind when the day comes when I can no longer drive or can't afford to run a car. I figure I can use them a number of times each year and not even come close to what it costs to keep a car on the road.
ReplyDeleteGlad the hearing aids are working out!
When you look at the cost of a car, maintenance, insurance, each trip is pretty expensive.
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