Go on with our lives.

 Today's marked with all kinds of ceremonies and remembrances. My own is a quiet video moment on YouTube by the town fountain. Just breathing.

But I think the real work is to go on living our lives, undeterred by outside forces, still fighting them, but without deforming our daily lives.

Yesterday I was out at the library because the house cleaners were at work at the house.  I  spent the time partly indoors, making videos and people watching, partly out sitting in the shade by the fountain.

Meanwhile the Misfits delivery arrived and the proof of delivery picture showed it in the hallway inside the open front door, meaning my lovely cleaners had received it. When I got home it was safely indoors, on the counter, still cool.

Then prep happened, yesterday and this morning. Yesterday the masses of kale, washed, torn and frozen. 

Then I made jam with the blueberries, diced the ginger, made a sauce of ginger, garlic and soy sauce.

This morning I set up the chicken with soy/ginger/garlic sauce to roast.

And diced the apples to macerate with cornstarch, cinnamon, vanilla, and amchur.

And steamed the carrots, ready for quiches or chicken dinners, or something.

This is all part of the resistance, taking care of our health and strength, despite the attacks on both.  Just sayin.

All the major players for me yesterday were women, gay and straight, different races and ethnicity. The close friend who drove me yesterday accepts me as an ally in female solidarity. Anyway, there we are. 

Happy day everyone, it really can be.

Can you identify this and improve my day? Early morning picture. I'm wondering evening primrose.

And here's one of my narrow bands at work in another international spy outfit. 

More mealus interruptus, doors and other minor concerns

I sadly remember 9/11, very local to us, our commuter train station full of cars never to be driven home, our neighbors and friends lost.  If we succeed in electing Harris, the danger of a repeat, and the subsequent presidential bungling, Bush the Second,  will remain far off the table. Meanwhile we remember and honor the dead.

In more trivial vein, I was boiling shells and simmering a lovely spicy red sauce, for lunch,  when two neighbors came over to discuss those doors again. So I switched everything off while we discussed bringing the door situation to the HOA, tablecloth repair, plant care, fall pruning, stiff joints, public furniture, postcards to voters, and finally, placed a call to the HOA, and left a message.

Then they finally left,  I had my,  now slightly overdone,  pasta, the sauce was great, and I was enjoying a bite of dessert when I was roped into a door-related conference call with the HOA manager. He's going to come Friday and look, before presenting his ideas about remediation to the board. One step further on.

I didn't watch the "debate"  because I can't bear to watch or hear that person. I notice Harris had dressed like a prosecutor, yay! and proceeded to get her policies across while wiping the floor with tfg.  A few minutes later, Taylor Swift endorsed, bringing a huge potential youth vote with her. 

This is a good day. Labwork this morning, would have been good to remember to put in Ruth and Laura, but we managed anyway.

Now I'm going to loaf, walk, read, get into another Austen drama, so many productions of so few novels, and stitch. Maybe on the proposed fusion throw, which uses fabric and crochet.  

It's Northanger Abbey, not my favorite novel, but the drama, great cast, Googie Withers, Geoffrey Chater -- from Lucia -- and very good production values. This one's from the 1980's.

Here's something I didn't make,but I'm glad van Gogh did. 

Happy day, everyone, Harris has got this, with our help.,

Fungi, begonias and stitching

A couple of days ago, I took these pictures of fungi and mosses on those fallen tree trunks, great place for them

Next day the yellow and orange ones were shriveled. Short lived. The storms knocked my butterfly bush sideways, but I've righted it and it looks fine now

and here's a pot with two kinds of begonias. They were several feet high, looking very scruffy and I cut them back all the way. They're outside in the shade of the butterfly bush, and making a comeback.

soon to come indoors,  when the ficus does. A couple more weeks yet,  since the weather's far from fall.

And I did get back to stitching, here with the current block, stitched in silk. Silk is the prima donna of threads, beautiful, difficult, slippery, demanding, but worth it.

Here the inner edge stitched in embroidery floss, the outer edge in silk

The dark pink shows up so differently in different lights. It's cerise, and looks very Indian with the fancy chartreuse stitching.

Here's where we are

Gary and little granddaughter came over the other day. She'd been visiting him, needed to shower, but he'd just finished grouting the bathroom, could she shower at my house? Well, of course! So he turned on the water to her preferred heat, and went home, because she could manage.

After her shower, she was looking at these blocks with interest, said she had a kit like that but hadn't tried it. Now maybe she will. She went off with a container of granola, new to her. 

So that was a nice interlude. I'm happy she was comfortable showering here, without her grandfather in the house. I know Gary has told both grandkids that when in doubt, they can come here. Nowadays that's quite a big deal.

Footnote to my 9/11 memories:

Up to then, I'd had a flourishing pet care service for 12 years, a lot of work, and an income I could live on. That day destroyed it. I had a lot of corporate clients who traveled all the time for work at short notice. One call to me and they were set to go. Many of them worked in and near the Towers, and some didn't survive, while corporate travel stopped completely for months. Others were transferred to a different city.

I had  vacationing clients also,  stranded all over the world, literally Alaska to New Zealand, frantically calling to find out if I was okay, and could I keep visiting until they made it home.  If course I could.

But after a month with close to zero bookings, I couldn't hang on and rebuild the client base. All  my frequent bookers, the real income stream, were gone, leaving only a group who only needed service for an annual vacation.  Not enough.

So I had to look for another way to earn, revved up my art workshop teaching and made a new living there, since I was known already, but now instead of a sideline it was the main thing. 

Pretty scary, to be honest,  starting  over in your sixties, but too young for Medicare and social security. I did own my condo, and I had to support several cats and birds and me, and somehow pay my health insurance. That took half my income, but I daren't go without.

On the good side, Handsome Partner and I, on 9/11,  decided to resume our relationship, life clearly demonstrated to be short, and we were a couple for the next ten years, till his death. 

I never depended on him for income, in case you wondered.  Heck, he was nearly as broke as me, his pet care business having gone, too.  I'd helped him  set it up after his health had forced him into early retirement from his research career. What a pair of hopeless cases! But life went wobbling on.

So in many ways, 9/11 was a watershed moment, where in many ways, life, for much of the world,  fell into Before and After.

Happy day,  everyone, I hope your After is good.

 

9/11, art still rules

 

This was local to me. Friends, clients, adult children of friends, in the Towers. My train station lot full of commuter cars of people who would never return, neighbors finally getting home, filthy, exhausted, two days later.

That morning I, and other artists were meeting to hang a group show. We all kept going, after the first strike,  still met, still hung the show, crying. We'd all separately decided that terrorists couldn't be allowed to interfere with art. We wouldn't give them the win.

In that spirit, here's a presentation of Indian trade cloth and cultural exchange, as promised yesterday.  I'm posting without commentary, since the slides are labeled and dated. Where pieces are not attributed, they're in the collection of the presenter.

One note: the elephant made up of monkeys, is a composite animal, a favorite Indian motif.

Happy day, everyone, there's always light and art and each other.