The Misfits box arrived, in time for me to have a tuna melt with spinach for lunch. To be exact, cheese arrived. I'd finished the curried lentils already, so there was a lunch vacancy.
The eggs were also the cavalry coming over the hill, since I forgot to order last week and was down to the last egg. Panic, couldn't make mayo! Or egg salad, no mayo, no eggs.
The nutritious crushed almonds in dark chocolate also saved the dessert day, no yogurt made yet.
I got an unexpected helping hand, from Gary's little granddaughter, who ran over to give me a hug and tell me they were off to find a pool to swim in. Then she held the door for me while I heaved the box indoors.
The artworks were picked up promptly by a very excited taker, so I think they're off to a good home.
And I did some drawn threads on the latest piece.
All the threads I drew out completely will be useful to invisibly stitch down this page to the muslin base. I've set it aside till tomorrow, and I'll see what fifty things need to happen next.
I was involved in a discussion elsewhere about being an immigrant, and some of the issues there. One of them is the definite message from quite a lot of people that you must justify being here. Unlike native born Americans, you're expected to give value.
I don't mind giving value, like many immigrants, and I certainly have, in many ways blogistas don't know about because I haven't written about it. There's a privilege in making it through all the bureaucracy and challenges, that you feel you need to more than justify. Immigrants get it done is not an idle phrase.
And then there's the expectation also that you also have no business having opinions, particularly political ones, however long you've lived here.
I've been challenged about that by people younger than I, who haven't lived here as long as I! Even told that "real" -- native born -- are entitled, but not people from "away". Naturalized citizenship simply doesn't count in some eyes.
When people get really offensive about it, a rare occurrence, I play the eighth generation New York State card. That's my family who arrived in the 1850s in New York harbor, just like me in the 1960s, and settled in northern New York State.
This baffles people who know I'm first generation, and can't grasp that entire extended families don't all emigrate together! There are always branches that stay. I don't know why this is hard to grasp, but it is.
And don't get me started on people who flame out if I disagree with them. That's getting out of my assigned place as a permanent guest.
Sometimes I get annoyed, and sometimes I find it very funny. A lot of annoying things are eventually funny, when you reframe them as people worried that they're being outdone. I think it's not about me, it's about them, really, so I handle with care.
Happy day everyone, let's make interesting stuff and handle each other with care, if you follow me!