Current reading is the fascinating
About aging and the medical profession, it's about getting up to date on the facts of aging rather than the assumptions. It's very readable and with plenty of planning ideas as you notice physician and patient interaction.
My own doctor is careful not to attribute to age alone any new symptom. She may be unusual in that.
Before anything else today, please contact all your MOCs to demand they put the brakes on the madman in the white house, lower case while he's in office. They must support the military in refusing illegal orders.
And on immigrant rights, there's a proposal to reduce the deportation appeal period to a clearly impossible 12 days. Please go to Chop Wood Carry Water and use the links Jess provides to make your wishes known, on both issues. Thank you.
Meanwhile an interlude of friendship and civilization, with the Tuesday Needlearts Group.
Here's a familiar WIPTalk ranged over everything except the news, since everyone needed a respite. It includes travel, Malta, sweet woodruff, cotton seeds, which I shared around for planting, aging, taxes, Easter hunts, high school reunions, tatting, health, auto shows, crime fiction and more.
Textiles and Tea presented
Above commissioned pieces in a restaurant, below massive ceiling panels woven in cotton
Here's adventurous weave patterns
Ikat, where he paints both warp and weft in a freewheeling style
Definitely an art teacher everyone should have! Check his website.






















YES! I am so glad you are reading Elderhood! I listened to it last week. Louise Aronson really tells it like it is. I agree with her on so many fronts. It was good to hear about her experiences as a doctor who deals with us elderly in our medical establishment. I have considered suggesting that my doctor read it. It might just cause him exasperation, though. The whole framework needs to change.
ReplyDeleteGlad you had a good day. I was wondering all day how the latest ultimatum was going to end. It seems the can has been kicked down the road yet again.
It's a really good look at elder medicine. I very much appreciate my own doctor who is neither ageist nor sexist, because she's a hugely intelligent experienced 70 year old woman! She doesn't order tests unless there's good reason, she cautions me about otc medicines and is very encouraging about keeping moving. I've told her she's not allowed to retire till I say so!
DeleteYour library’s Stitches And Repair are a bit different. Here people can go together things repaired by others I think. Which a lot of us seniors really appreciate, having lost the needle threading ability, or not having a sewing machine.
ReplyDeleteThis is a diy idea, the library providing the machine and a couple of skilled volunteers offering assistance. I really like it, on the principle of not doing for people what they can do themselves. But when they can't, helping.
DeleteAnother great post with activism, creativity, community spirit, and an intro to an artist. I went and read about Chaco - UNESCO world heritage site ...if you lose it we all lose it. Humanity loses. I had never heard about it before; now I want to visit, to see it, to breathe it.
ReplyDeleteThat's what a lot of people in power don't get. We don't own the wonders of this country, we're stewards for everyone. The indigenous people knew this so well.
DeleteAll the projects at your Needlearts Group look so marvelous! If you must know, I have a soft spot for Toad.
ReplyDeleteI think toad is developing a following in the group, too. Aren't they skilled makers?
DeleteSounds like you have a good doctor.
ReplyDeleteI have a whole team of good doctors, this region being full of them, all accepting Medicare.
DeleteTornero's work is amazing!
ReplyDeleteHis vision is so open and ready for new ideas, yes. And his skills are top level.
DeleteI love your NeedleArts group, I love your doctor, I've put the book on hold at the library, and what fortunate students to have such a creative teacher! I've been belaboring my senator (who happens to be the do-nothing chairman of the Senate Foreign Relations Committee) especially hard these last couple of weeks. Can't say it's helped...but one has to try.
ReplyDeleteIn less fraught news - nothing is happening in the owl department. The male is so determined, coming by the box and calling and calling (and calling and calling and calling!), but very little interest from the female who kicked out the first female. Will this be the year of No Eggs?
Chris from Boise
I expect you didn't mean the book about knitting cats? They male owl is probably wondering why he can't get on with a mate! Poor guy.
DeleteYes, even when it seems hopeless with your MOCs, you never know what will push some action, good for you. It's so much harder when you've got obdurate people representing you. Easier for me when all my reps are onside. Though it was pressure like mine that deterred Booker a while ago from conceding some rightish claims.
The baby blanket is beautiful and reminds me of the "feather and fan"pattern I used to knit in matinee jackets for newborns. I still have the pattern though I am no longer able to knit.
ReplyDeleteI'll pass on your compliment to the knitter.
DeleteWhat is Gary going to do without you? Love the baby blanket.
ReplyDeleteI expect a lot of phone calls and texts with pictures!
DeleteOh how I would love him as an art teacher! When SG’s grandmother was 80-ish (in the late 70s), every time she saw her doctor and would tell him about something, he would say, “It’s old age. Nothing to do about it.” She finally got so disgusted she found another doctor who respected her, listened, and helped her. When I was 55, I had a doctor in Irvine, CA, tell me some things were simply because of my age. At 55!!! I took a lesson from Grandma and found a better doctor.
ReplyDeleteGood for grandma! People deserve proper medical attention at all ages. What would happen if a baby was miserable with teething and the doctor said it's part of being a baby, nothing we can do, she has to tough it out. And to you at 55, that's outrageous! Translation: dear patient, I have no idea what to do, so go away.
DeleteI like how your library group has so much variety in their work. Interesting!
ReplyDeleteThere's a whole variety of nationalities and cultures there, so it's an interesting mix
DeleteA good day then. The knitting is beautiful, as is the weaving that young man does.
ReplyDeleteI'm not liking the medications that go along with aging.
I also love that the library has a program that will teach people how to mend things.
I think you have to be very careful about meds that work fine for younger people but aren't so effective nor safe for older patients. I'd definitely question any medication that made me depressed, not well.
DeleteThe repair program just started, and we gave all kinds of encouragement to the librarian whose idea it was. She has skills, too.
Retirement for a doctor after 75 must be terrible. My beloved is exhausted when he comes home every evening, but sitting down and watching tv fills him with horror.I suggest he writes journal papers, and goes to a conference each year.
ReplyDeleteHels
Art and Architecture, mainly
It's quite a change from the hectic life of a doctor. I know a couple who do an occasional stint as a stand in, and one who is supervising a new project, just part time.
DeleteI've been repeatedly told my problems are related to age, which has truth to and extent. What the big problem is being ignored to the point of no return. I'm going to look up the book.
ReplyDeleteIt's true to a point but when it extends to writing people off on that account, that's terrible practice. You really have to fight to be heard with some practitioners.
DeleteToad's body is quite impressive for a knitting project! (At least to me, a non-knitter.) And I love the idea of the repair group at the library.
ReplyDeleteToad is a skilled project, yes, not a beginning piece. I'm so happy about the repair group and I wonder if they'll get into visible mending.
DeleteWe have the recent experience of Dad complaining about leg pain all last year being fobbed of as age and hips related - finally he acceded to their wishes and went to an orthapedic surgeon who got a scan done for a hip replacement - and they found metasticised cancer. Unfortunately he is regional, so no regular GP and reliant on locums.
ReplyDeleteThat is truly shocking, and though I don't grasp who's doing what I hope he can get decent care now that he's got a diagnosis.
DeleteI love the toad but there are lots of wonderful projects there. I love the idea of a monthly mending at the library.
ReplyDeleteCathy
We'll all be sad when Toad's finished! We've been watching his progress week by week. I really like the mending concept. Now that prices are rising people are probably thinking more about it than before.
DeleteI think health situations as we age must be frustrating to any thinking doctor because of course you can't blame everything on age but some things are without a doubt, age-related at least.
ReplyDeleteWorn out joints for one thing.
But you are so right. There needs to be communication and discussion and a great deal of thought.
I think a lot of doctors need some education on the benefits of physical therapy at any age, and resistance training -- the physical kind, though the other kind keeps your mind ticking over and your community links lively.
DeleteIt seems like a great many of the medical professionals tend to dismiss older people. Brings to mind a new doctor who set up practice here and said they would take new patients but the first question was 'are you over 65' and if so, you weren't welcome. Same can be said about being a woman too - when often our ills are dismissed as being due to PMS. I'm case in point on that one when I went years with undiagnosed depression that was poo-poo'd as being PMS.
ReplyDeleteYes, sadly, that ageism and sexism is too common.
DeleteI'm trying to imagine getting the dust out of those cotton ceiling pillows.
ReplyDeleteThey're draped fabric, no stuffing, but I guess a restaurant would have to figure it out!
DeleteYes, even air pillows of fabric would take some figuring out in terms of cleaning. I've got dust on the brain right now - possibly literally - with a gradual but thorough Spring Clean underway. (Cough, sneeze)
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