Today the mold and pollen counts are sky high as is the mosquito hunger level, so I decided instead of sneezing and gasping and scratching outside, I'd resume my long neglected indoor exercise.
This is also a lift for the spirits, needed about now, too.
I had a recent neighborly visit from a human bearing banana bread, and this morning one of my local mourning doves showed up to help with the ant problem outside.
There's usually a pair, maybe the male is out on the nearby golf course this morning.
One of the issues weighing me down recently, which I hadn't mentioned, was the planned bathtub conversion
So last January I arranged for my contractor friend to do it, and some painting and tiling, as soon as he could get to it. He's been slammed with work, some of which had been on hold and suddenly came through.
As the weeks have gone by and my reminders were met with reassurance but no action, and it's been getting harder to step into the tub to shower, I've been losing heart.
Then I checked again Friday and he tells me I'm in this week's roster, to measure, choose, order, yay. I instantly felt much better.
Being able to shower solo is one of the markers enabling me to continue living here, like being able to be generally active, carrying and moving and making. So it's a big deal.
In other exciting news now that I've finished All Creatures, I've embarked on
Lovely Horowitz, a murder mystery within a murder mystery..I've been catching some discussion online about interspecies friendships and if they were real or ai.
I can vouch for their being real, because I've seen them, in my pet care and at home.
There was the big ginger cat whose friend was a hamster, who used to run about playing on the cat's back and take a nap between his paws.
The owner told me she was in a panic the first time her son's hamster took off from his cage, in case the cat hunted him down. He looked like a brown mouse.
To her amazement, the cat gently touched Hammie, and rolled him softly about and the hamster ran onto his back quite confidently.
The owner was careful for ages before realizing it was safe and they were playing.
I've known horses who loved having a cat in the stable, to sit on their neck, and got very restless if the cat wasn't around.
Nearer home there was the playtime between my tiny grey rescue cat Boud, hence my screen name in her honor, and my rescued lutino cockatiel Emily.
No pictures of them but here's an idea, swiped from the Internet.
So she and Boud developed various silly games, like lying side by side on the rug, daring me to step on them. And Emily would nibble gently on Boud's nose while Boud purred loudly. They were a dynamic duo.
Then there was Marigold the dumped Burmese kitten, and KC the dalmatian owned by Handsome Partner.
HP took Marigold because I couldn't house one more animal, and she, tiny, maybe a pound weight, was completely taken over by KC, a large boned 60+ lb Dalmatian, real picture of Marigold, swiped internet pic of a Dal.
KC groomed Marigold allll the time, swiping her giant tongue all over her till Marigold was pretty damp! She followed KC like her mom, slept between her paws and generally made a big nuisance of herself yanking on KCs ears and face, till KC like a patient nanny, pushed her gently away.
We used to think they were the best thing that ever happened to each other.
And then there are men and women, such different species but you do see cases where they get along wonderfully...
Happy day everyone, here's today's little bouquet











Yes! Adaptation! What a relief it will be for you to have that tub installed. I love interspecies relationships. Dogs and orangutans, ancient tortoises and young hippos. These things always grab my heart.
ReplyDeleteThe tub is installed, original with the house.. I'm getting the cut-out done and the kit installed to cover the open edges. Then I can easily step in.
DeleteThanks to you, I often turn to April and Aiko when I can't get out for a walk. They are so sweet and fun to workout with.
ReplyDeleteI hope the tub conversion gets done soon. That will make a huge difference!
You have had such a variety of happy, friendly pets!
I'm looking forward to getting the bathroom fixed. It's looking shabby and worn out. I love April and aiko!
Deletei thought of you today as i composed my little posy: purple catmint, purple and white zinnia, pink cosmos, with one marigold zing of orange.
ReplyDeleteYes to balance exercises! And so happy to hear that your shower tub cutaway step 1 is on this week's roster.
You have wonderful stories of interspecies friendships within your personal experience. The reason we thought border collie Rowan would be a gentle playmate for our older border collie Obi was a video the foster group sent of Rowan playing with a cat, and letting the cat win. We asked if we could adopt the cat too (nope!)...
Chris from Boise
What thoughtful way to choose Rowan. About bouquets -- can you identify the blue flower in mine? It's from a mixed seed packet and I'm not sure what I've got except I love it.
DeleteI had thought that the bathtub was done a long time ago. Meanwhile, I am sneezing and neglecting weights, too
ReplyDeleteI was hoping for it months ago, but I'll take it whenever I can.
DeleteIt’s getting harder for me to get into and out of the tub. Our shower is over our bathtub. I might look into something like this. Our resident celebrity, dobby the donkey, and our steer, brisket, have become very close.
ReplyDeleteThis is annoying because as the name suggests, he is here for a reason.
But how can I take dobbys friend away.
It’s quite the dilemma
I expect you can find the bathtub conversion kit. I hope you get it set up faster than I have!
DeleteYou may have to replace brisket with a new brisket..
I stopped for a stray dog once. He was so afraid. I sat on the ground and talked to him until finally, he stepped forward and stood staring into my eyes from about 5 feet away. I didn't move. I just kept talking. He finally walked to me buried his face in my neck and did this strange whistling whimper noise. I just kept talking and petted him. When he stopped crying, I stood up and said 'let's go home'. He walked with me to the car and was my dog for the rest of his life.
ReplyDeleteHe knew his real person had shown up. Nice story.
DeleteI'm a big Magpie Murders fan, too! I tried the books but just couldn't get into them.
ReplyDeleteYAY on the bathtub conversion. It has been about eight months since my husband and sons replaced my bathtub (and surround) with a standing shower. It has changed my life, lol. I have a shower stool and railings and a hand held sprayer that is mounted so I can reach it from the stool. I love it. I know you will love your accessible shower too.
That conversion is thousands of dollars beyond my means and dreams. What I'm doing is what I can afford. It's a simple cutout of the existing tub to make it easier to step in. I'm looking forward to it.
DeleteThere is a orphan wildlife rescue channel that I occasionally watch. Little giraffe is bestie with a tree, so it definitely exists.
ReplyDeleteMy small parrot loved was a free flyer as well, came when called, I was probably a big bird to her. Tiny is mighty. She loved to run around on the floor, lengthy monologues. Hamlet perhaps? Cat tried to chase her, instead of flying off, she bit him in the nose. It was the end of their relationship, but he kept a respectful distance after that.
Parrots are not to be messed with!
DeleteOn a more serious note. My father had a similar conversion. a shower chair was his favorite. Easy to clean and move around. Railings everywhere. He would rather die than not do that himself.
ReplyDeleteP.S. non slip mats inside and in front and a half tub with its own internal heater. What Mitchell said; you'll like it.
ReplyDeleteThis adaptation pictured is what I can afford. I don't have family members to do it for me. I already have grab bars everywhere in the house, from my late husband and very useful now to me. I'm looking forward to getting it done.
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DeleteMisunderstanding. My father wanted to be able to shower by himself. I understand the conversion you're getting. I suggested the shower chair because I didn't know such a thing exists and it was a life saver. You can order it online good ones are as little as fifty dollars. It's a simple sturdy plastic chair with drainage holes on the seat. The chair is movable like a foot stool with a back rest. No installation. Voilà .
Yes, attending to your own shower is important. During my late husband's last years I got shower furniture for both bathrooms, very useful. For him it was a game changer. I still have them and use them for seating outside the shower. Simple stuff but a great idea.
DeleteAs part of her aged care allowance my mother had someone visit every second day to help her shower. While my brother was her paid carer, clearly it wasn't an appropriate task for him. There was already a separate shower and I think she used a shower chair.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it so nice to have the memories of pets you once had, with their at times odd and often endearing individual traits.
About the bathtub, some people were maybe not following me back on January 11,2026, when I first explained this. You may want to take a look.
ReplyDeleteIt is good about the kit and modification of your tub! I enjoy hearing about your animals too.
ReplyDeleteLet's hope it goes smoothly!
DeleteI love seeing videos of mixed-species friendships, and also meeting the real deal. And, yes, I’ve heard that sometimes even men and women do well together. Fascinating.
ReplyDeleteI have actually observed male and female friendships, so cool!
DeleteWhoever would dump a Burmese kitten! They are so intelligent and adorable.
ReplyDeleteI need to check out 'balance exercises for seniors- asap; I've noticed I've been getting wobbly...
Sometimes dumping a partner's precious pet is part of domestic violence. That's how a number of my rescues came to me.
DeleteDefinitely take a look at Yes2next. It's very good for your confidence to keep your balance going.
Yes yes to your new tub situation! I hope you enjoy it for many years. Inter-species relationships just prove beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Glad to know where the name Boud came from...well at least the second rendition...not sure how it came to be your kitty's name in the first place!
ReplyDeleteBoud is short for Boudicca, equivalent of Victoria. I took Boud and her sister Victoria together, both with dopey names I forget now, so I named them both for victory, because they were survivors.
DeleteI especially love your last example of interspecies friendships:)
ReplyDeleteWe're having a new shower installed in the master suite this coming winter, a walk in, complete with grab bars and a seat to sit on. Old age is coming for us and I fall a lot already.
That's a good plan for the bathroom, because falls there are a real hazard. What with being wet and soapy.
DeleteWhat a lot of interesting news here! But special applause for finally having the tub re-do scheduled. I hate stepping into shower-tubs and I'm lucky I don't have to. But often wonder, if I did (or travel). I loved Magpie Murders. Beginning next week on PBS is part one of the Marble Hall Murders, featuring the same characters, cast as Magpie and Moonflower murders. 9 pm on Sunday and Horowitz did the screenplay as well as the delightful novel. (I plowed through all 560 pages in about two days, it was that enjoyable!)
ReplyDeleteThe Susan Ryeman (?) character is great. Lesley Manville is just great casting.
DeleteYes, yes to interspecies friendships, in our case many cats and many dogs grooming each other and seeking each other out, and grieving when one dies.
ReplyDeleteGood news about the bath tub. I hope it's swiftly accomplished.
As of now, he's coming Thursday to start to do whatever he does, yay.
DeleteMy aunt (who is still with us despite all anticipated reports to the contrary a few weeks ago) has a legacy in her will for money to go to animal rescue groups to house pets for domestic violence victims for a few months while they get themselves reestablished.
ReplyDeleteI think that conversion a wonderful idea. No thought to removing the bath altogether? A lot of houses being sold these days over here have no bath - we did get one with a bath (because I love baths) but after one "swim" in it recently I realised there are no handholds to get OUT and that is an adventure to make you feel feeble!
This townhouse legally has two and a half baths. Removing one full bath would slash its value, and cause complications, township objections and possibly being required to replace the tub. And changing the real estate tax situation. Endless complications.. I'll just stick with the cutout kit!
DeleteYears ago I had a struggle to get out of the tub, and since then I've had to shower. But I did like a little soak. Oh well.
I meant to say that is a thoughtful bequest by your aunt. Clearly she knows a thing or two.
DeleteI remember seeing pet friendship as a child; our big German Shepherd would sleep on the grass on a sunny day with our ginger cat (named Ginger) curled up beside him and our Galah (pink and grey cockatoo) perched on the dog's back, also eyes closed having a nap.
ReplyDeleteI have heard about walk-in bath tubs and wondered how on earth anyone could take a bath without spilling water all over the floor, NOW I see it is for those whose shower is also their bathtub.
That's a nice scene to picture, three species peacefully resting together.
DeleteA walk in bathtub is quite different from what we're talking about here, no shower involved.
I've had cats and dogs that were friends. A cat and a bird is a bit surprising. Maybe I've seen too many Sylvester and Tweety cartoons.
ReplyDeleteLikewise when people are surprised to see cat and dog friendship, probably similar reasons.
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ReplyDeleteOdd. Look up youtube catpodcast. There are a few of them. Let me know. I'll double check the link. It's AI used well.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteI really wish we could get something like you're planning for our tub but sadly, being a rental, we aren't allowed. I worry about the RC getting in and out but not much I can do beyond that. At least we have several grab bars so that helps.
ReplyDeleteOur cats and dogs always got along famously. We used to laugh at our little dog as she would take off chasing the cat and next thing we'd know they'd come tearing back with the cat doing the chasing. This would go on until they wore each other out.
Have you considered a shower bench like the one I got after my hip replacement? You sit outside the tub then slide in to shower, no climbing. If you check my blog in late March last year, there's a picture of it set up. Much safer than stepping over the side. Just a thought.
DeleteI love your picture of the pets chasing! Irene, back when she lived in Toronto, had a kitchen with swing doors. She had a large cat and a small dog. Neither of them could push open the doors to get through from living room to kitchen. So they joined forces and pushed together!
A friend of my mother's built her own 'last home' after she was widowed in her 60s. She showed me round her future-proofing which included a flush floor shower - almost an entire wet-room, wide doorways throughout (to allow walking frame or even wheelchair) and glass cupboard doors so the contents are always easy to see (reminders for a failing mind she said) - and much more. It made me realize we dont give enough thought to how we age in our homes and we have tried to incorporate all I learned from her in our own design.
ReplyDeleteThat was imaginative and brave planning. I'm glad you're taking ideas from it
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