Early morning, after rain overnight I think, the foliage is showing how they handle steaming hot and wet weather.
It's not comfortable for humans, high humidity with heavy rain adding to it, but the plants are in touch with their wild ancestors, and mosses are showing up.
The curry leaf plant at the foot of the Japanese maple is as happy as I've ever seen it. The lavender appears to be calming down having been hit by a car, had its roots torn out of the ground, then been moved several times. It's sitting there in the corner planning on a quiet rest of the summer.
I had a thrilling email from a blogista who tried her hand at cordage and made a very creditable length. It's so good to know someone tried and liked a new, to her, skill that she'd seen here. My work here is done!
However my reminder work will never be done. I don't use post it notes, because I know I won't notice them. I do visuals.
If my pill bottle is there, full mug of water, when I wake, it means take early morning pill. Then move mug over, so I remember that means post breakfast pills, then after them, put it empty next to evening pill bottle. After that pill, refill and put next to morning pills to continue the cycle.
Likewise keys, all keys in the little basket near where I put on shoes in the hallway. Even my neighbors know at this point where to find them!
And so on. I put appointments in my phone and mostly remember to check them. The phone is always on me. I literally don't move without it. Either in a deep pocket or a phone purse. An old person living alone owes it to everyone to do her bit for personal safety.
My wallet is always in my bag hanging in a designated spot, to avoid finding myself out and about without my vital documents.
It's not that my memory's poor so much as I'm always thinking about other people's doings, or what I'm reading, or what I'm making, or what I'm planning to cook, a lot of things more interesting than where's my stuff.
Currently after reading an extract from Ed Yong An Immense World,
I'm totally engrossed in thinking about the senses and how animals and we literally see the world so differently. So it's very likely I'd forget other things that aren't as gripping.
Gary stopped in to visit and talk about his dog and his new GPS tracker for when Billie makes off as she has a couple of times. He knows she makes appearances in this blog sometimes and likes it. I told him about Olga and he sends his condolences.
He knows about losing a beloved friend. He went a year after his last dog before he was ready for Billie and now she's very important, without replacing her predecessor. She's a different breed, small like Bennie, but different, her own personality.
And we talked sports, golf is not surprisingly too slow and uneventful for a man who loves basketball and motorcycles. He tells me we've got a pickleball court marked out on the tennis courts but games haven't started yet. No, I don't plan on it.
Sports are nearly as exciting to me as scraping carrots. Except I was a sharp badminton player. The real game, indoor, competitive, with great rackets.
Handsome Partner introduced me to it, and it rewards strategy and good eye hand coordination. Also small stature and foot speed. Not brute strength and endurance. Some world class players have been Asian, especially Indonesian. Small, powerful, speedy.
You have to be fit though. You don't let your heels down much, always on the balls of your feet ready for all directions. A good player doesn't get out of breath. Their opponents do though.
Happy day everyone, stay alert, you never know what might be coming at you around here.
We found "An Immense World" absolutely fascinating - and somewhat humbling as we realized just how many senses we poor humans lack.
ReplyDeleteYou are definitely experiencing 'mossy weather'! Congratulations to the blogista who is experimenting with cordage. You are an inspiration to many!
Chris from Boise
I was very interested in the discussion of vision and eye placement, really stretches the imagination to understand different ways of seeing.
DeleteI was thrilled at K's cordage project!
It was refreshing to be able to actually make something without a hook, needle or hoop. No looking for paraphernalia. Just fingers, which are usually with me. 😄. Kris in Ohio
DeleteIt's easy to be distracted and that can play havoc with routine.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed playing badminton, but basketball was my game. Squash I found quite musical - all that squeaking of footwear and echoing bounce of balls.
I never encountered a chance at basketball. Netball, nearest to it.
DeletePickle ball was becoming popular down on the beach before we moved. I found it unpleasant because each hit is loud and disruptive. Not easy to relax with that inconsistent THWAP. Not a beat I can dance to.
ReplyDeleteIt does seem to have its critics, passionate on both sides!
DeleteI may adopt some of your strategies, and that book sounds up my street too!
ReplyDeleteAlso please share any new reminder ideas. Always open to new ones.
DeleteI was not bad at racket sports, like table tennis and actual tennis. I think I would have liked badminton had I had more of an opportunity. I think I would like pickleball if I had two working feet.
ReplyDeleteWhen you said you said that you use visuals instead of post it notes, that's exactly what I do. It works best for me. I've never played badminton, but I was good at volleyball for some strange reason. Sports was not my forte. Jon
ReplyDeleteI couldn't get arrested at volleyball -- fists too weak!
DeleteI keep making mistakes when I type because my arm is completely numb from the bandaged wound. Sorry! Jon
DeleteQuite a few of us make typos with no excuse at all! I'm so happy when you comment.
DeleteI set up a lot of visual cues too, often involving pills and medication. About 20 years ago, I joined a recreational badminton club for exercise but I wasn't fit enough, kept injuring my legs so I quit after going to the physio one too many times.
ReplyDeleteBadminton is a lot more demanding than it looks. Good players make it look effortless.
DeleteGreat reminders...I also have some, but probably need more.
ReplyDeleteI'm collecting reminders!
DeleteI remember reading something (can't remember what) and having the same exact mind-blown experience about how animals see things completely differently than we do. I mean yes, we all KNOW that but to really analyze it is a different matter. So. Which is real? What we see or what cats see or what elephants see or what birds see or...
ReplyDeleteIt's all real. We all have different realities.
This is too much for a Monday morning.
I will just be grateful I can see.
I'm still digesting the fact that we have a massive blind spot behind our heads! Not having necks like owls.
DeleteMy pill boxes are my reminders. Not only do they remind me to take my pills (AM and PM) but they always let me know what day of the week it is.
ReplyDeleteLike you, I use my phone calendar for appointments - always setting the alert to remind me an hour or more before I have to go.
I keep my pills in the original bottles because I can't reliably tell one from another if they're mixed in a compartment. Especially when my generic supplier changes sources and the pills now look different.
DeleteMy phone reminds me to take my pills and to do my daily exercising. That's the only sound notices I have. The rest are muted. A new pet is filling a hole but never a replacement. They are all so individual they cannot be replaced. My place is beginning to look like a rain forest, the growth is overwhelming.
ReplyDeleteAny pet is her own personality, even if the same breed as her predecessor. There's no replacing, any more than with human friends who have gone.
DeleteVisual aids and muscle memory are both such a great way to find things. I have always put my keys in my purse when I'm done with them, although I don't need to take my key out of my purse to start the car, the fob just needs to be nearby which is helpful. My purse is always left in the same place, same as glasses. Now I leave the light on in the laundry room, right next to the kitchen if I'm waiting for anything in there, just reminds because when I walk away from something now, it seems to disappear:(
ReplyDeleteThese are great tips, Pixie, thank you. Yes, funny how things just evaporate. They do that at my house too.
DeleteThanks so much to you and Gary for thoughtfully remembering Olga. I suspect we'll also wait about a year before we consider another dog. Your pill system is a good one -- I do the same thing, leave certain items in prominent places to remember a task. (Example: Last night I left the bathroom trash can next to the kitchen trash cabinet so I'd remember to take the trash out this morning!)
ReplyDeleteOlga gets around! As does Billie.
DeleteHello :)
ReplyDeleteThank you for your visit.:) I came to this blog first, because of the title. The book seems very interesting and it is intriguing how all living creatures use their senses differently. I also visited your other blog, and was impressed by your artistic skill. I was taught weaving at art college. and printing material with ones own design.
I love the colours and texture in the jacket you are making. I hope your shoulder gets better soon so you will be able to show the finished garment.
All the best
Sonjia
Thank you for your long and interesting comment. The other blog I folded into this one some time ago. I'm glad you enjoyed visiting there. My art now gets included in this blog. The jacket you referred to was several years ago, and I've had a lot of wear out of it, with years more to come! The shoulder healed very well, thank you, very happy ending there.
ReplyDeleteI usually allow myself a first forget, and then resort to a visual clue so I don't forget a second time. Though if it's something where forgetting could lead to a life-or-death outcome, I start out with the visual clue.
ReplyDeleteThe visuals are mainly born of desperation!
DeleteI've tried very hard to develop the sort of routines you descrbe - especially living in different ways and different places from week to week, mo th to month. My problem arises when routine gets interrupted (someone drips in unexpectedly and I put down whatever I'm carrying/holding and once out of routine I have no idea where to start looking. I've ceased to be mindful about where things have been put and sometimes what seemed a good idea or ligical at the time is completely lost on me when I can't find that crucial thing weeks later. Living in a small space doesn't help either - things sometimes have to be stacked… oh vey
ReplyDeleteYes, interruptions are the worst. When you put something down hurriedly, it's gone!
DeleteNever got to grips with badminton. Played squash very badly, tennis likewise.
ReplyDeleteMeant to say glad you've been signed off hip-wise.
Good system for pill-taking, and remembering where things are. I need to do that.
I think racquet sports are either you or not. I couldn't grip firmly enough for tennis. The racquet would spin and skin my hand. Racquetball and badminton were fine, lighter racquets.
DeleteWouldn't mind if you could send us some of your rain. Things are getting absolutely brown here and it's getting dangerous in case there's fires.
ReplyDeleteI've never been a person who played any sort of sports. The closest I could come to that was when I finally learned to ride a bicycle when I was 12.
Some people just aren't into it. Are your sons?
Delete#2 son was into sports when he was in school - primarily basketball, ultimate frisbee and roller blading. Both sons played baseball but neither was into winter sports.
DeleteI do a lot of keeping things in the same spot--purse, keys...well, everything really--lol! Journals, pens, dirty clothes, pills, stamps & return address labels...things go in certain places everywhere--frig, freezer, pantry (I even face my cans and bottles after working in a grocery store--lol!). I use visual cues as much as possible, too--plus phone alarms. I call it being efficiently lazy. Why waste energy searching for things or through shelves? ;)
ReplyDeleteEach critter we live with is their own special soul. Just like each friend we've ever had. There's always room for another one. :)
I face cans and bottles just because I can't be bothered turning them to see what they are. You're pretty organized.
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