I just finished a great Mary Wesley, they're all great, that atmosphere she creates immediately, that surrounds you to the end of the novel.
I also like the way her characters wander in and out of each other's stories. Here Calypso, from Chamomile Lawn, has a cameo, and her son, Hamish plays a small but important part in this story. It's like Barbara Pym, where someone is described and the reader knows them from having read the novel where they were leading characters. You feel you have the inside track.
This one is about recovering from crushing grief and the loss of a child, trigger alert in case you don't want to go there, and people plunging about trying to make life work with varying degrees of success.
It's set mainly in London with a quick business trip to the US, and some excursions into the country. And there's a lurcher. I'm always game for a lurcher
There's also a little echo here and there of Margery Sharp, the rangy, unconventional heroines, the men whose appearance is nothing like their inner longings, the rough trade that appeals surprisingly to some conventional women. I wonder if Wesley read Sharp.
Wesley published her first novel at 70, so I expect there was a lot of reading in her life before then. And some of her writing comes from her lived experience with her own family, uncaring and callous to her, but paid out in her fiction, maybe after their deaths.
The storm seems to be coming to nothing much. The library closed because of the declared state of emergency, cancelling our art opening, and I cancelled my dental checkup. Then I thought I may as well cancel the cancellation, and found my dentist, who evidently works Sundays, had already reassigned the slot.
He'll call with an appointment for the same day. Gary, who's driving me, assures me no problem, Monday is flexible for him, so it will work. I was being courteous, not wanting to cancel last minute, but oh well.
Lunch was soup, made from the rest of the chickpeas, tomatoes and spinach from that pasta dish. All heated together, worked fine. Canned mango chunks and yogurt, beaten with lemon juice and sugar for dessert. Easy, A noncooking day. Another can of mango goes to the food pantry. I think someone will like it.
There being no rain, I caught up on walking, A nice half hour. It's surprising how soon your strength falters when you don't walk daily. Weight training Sunday evening.
This account was interrupted by Gary rushing in with a pot of boiled eggs, to practice shelling them!
He's been working on his eggs lately, unfamiliar with boiling and shelling them successfully. Many consultations! I think he's cracked (!) it now. He's very happy. I'm encouraging him to buy free range, easier to work with, more nutritious etc.
He suddenly said "I'm going to go nuts when I don't live next door to you! So many questions answered." I think there may be a lot of calls after he moves, what with plants, cooking, medical decisions, the gamut.
Happy day everyone, teach your grandma to shell eggs, sez Ted and Big Ursy.





I was thinking king of Mary Wesley the other day, mainly because a friend was thinking about getting a guinea pig for company (I won't explain, you know or you don't, and I didn
ReplyDeleteI was going to finish... and I didn't say anything to the friend who has a very soft spot where animals are concerned)
ReplyDeleteThat one's a cultural difference, I believe. Some animals are pets in one country, food in another. I vaguely remember this in Camomile Lawn.
DeleteI hope Gary will have a helpful neighbour when he moves. He sounds the sort of person who makes friends easily, but I expect the air waves will be busy with calls from him to you.
ReplyDeleteI expect he will have new friends in no time!
DeleteSometimes our school buses are cancelled due to expected major snowfalls, and sometimes the forecast is wrong and kids just get a free day. Not much else usually gets shut down.
ReplyDeleteI think our library has a policy of shutting for states of emergency, even if we're unlikely to be affected. Probably a better safe than sorry approach. This time it was a pity because of the art opening.
DeleteI love how you and Gary help each other with your different strengths. His more physical, yours more of wisdom.
ReplyDeleteI have more problem solving skills, and he has much more knowledge of mechanics and electricity. It's helpful. He's much more socially dependent than I, but that's not surprising, given that African Americans have survived by keeping strong social connections. They don't have the luxury of being fairly safely solo as white people do.
DeleteHis soul just sounds so open, so bright.
DeleteI'm glad the storm did not much materialize for you. I am still listening for the phone today...Please tell Gary hello.
ReplyDeleteHe'll be very amused to hear from you! I'm waiting with you, too.
DeleteI've never heard of Mary Wesley, so I looked her up. She had a very interesting life and sounds like she was what would be labeled a difficult woman (which to me means she lived her life as she saw fit). I'm looking forward to reading her books.
ReplyDeletePoor Gary. I'm glad you were able to teach him how to peel a hard boiled egg. I've started making hard boilded egg chocolate pudding which sounds disgusting but is very delicious and high protein.
I hope you enjoy Mary Wesley. Let us know how it goes. That pudding sounds unusual.
DeleteI am glad the storm didn’t materialize. Being able to get out for a walk instead of staying in is always a treat!
ReplyDeleteFor me getting out is vital. I get down quickly when I don't walk.
DeleteI'm going to miss Gary. Truly. He is a character! It's good the storm did not materialize.
ReplyDeleteI doubt if he will ever be out of the picture even after he moves
DeleteI'm glad the storm missed you and you are safe. I'm catching up on your posts as I was in Texas visiting grandchildren. Lots of fun but good to be home!
ReplyDeleteI imagine a bit of rest is on your schedule just now
DeleteSo glad Gary has cracked it. I’m going to miss him just showing up at your door with things. Your texts will be very entertaining. Glad you didn’t get hit by the storm. No matter how many times I read your title, I see it as “instant soup and oil change.” I got to the end of the post and still thought, “What about the oil change?”
ReplyDeletePeople who use blogger have a link for " newer post". I always, always read it as "newel post". When Gary moves I'll have many fewer interrupted meals,so there's that.
DeleteI am really glad you are safe.
ReplyDeleteThank you, me too. Only storm damage is one pot of coleus overturned on the deck.
DeleteI had never heard of Mary Wesley, either. Sounds like she'd fit in with the free love hippies of the 60s from what they say about her on Wikipedia--lol!
ReplyDeleteI do hope Gary can help you build that patio whether he moves away or not. He could always come back to visit and peel hardboiled eggs--LOL! ;)
Have a marvelous week!! :)
She was definitely her own woman. I love her writing. I hadn't thought about the patio for a few days what with weather, Gary not well. I must find out what's what with it.
DeleteDo you sometimes think, "This is annoying but great blogging material!"? I realized it's an interruption for you, but I'm endlessly delighted and amused by Gary's bursting in. I mean, "Gary rushing in with a pot of boiled eggs" is a fabulous scene for me to imagine! Relatedly... this morning, our favorite neighbors (house across the street) told me that they're moving in 2 mos. I'm very disappointed! They'll be nearby, only 4 mins away by car. But it's not at all the same as being able to text, "My package was delivered early, and we are away for the night. Could you retrieve it from the front steps and put it into our garage?" We have each other's garage codes, which are the equivalents of house keys in our suburban location. Sacred trust, you know? Anyway, I'll have to get used to the idea.
ReplyDeleteI think he'll be around after he leaves, since a family member he's close to will be his tenant. I never plan ahead to blog, other than a few pictures. There's so much to say that it's more about leaving a lot out! Including most of the shenanigans next door..
DeleteI can see you'll miss your neighbors, because a few minutes away means no casual sightings and chats.
I've not read that Wesley. Will have to keep and eye out.
ReplyDeleteWe will miss Gary and his antics.
You are so right - if Gary needs advice on shelling boiled eggs there is still a world of stuff he needs to learn from you.
ReplyDeleteI'm behind in commenting once again - and thank you for the Thanksgiving wishes.
ReplyDeleteI think we're all going to miss Gary and his escapades. We all wish to have a neighbour like that - endlessly entertaining and yet more than willing to step in and help when he's needed.
I suspect he'll still be around quite a bit, because his family member will be his tenant.
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